That feeling you experience, when you watch people struggle time and time again... you just want to shake them and MAKE them understand exactly how to do it. To wrap up what you have and gift it to them... but you can't. You can lead a horse to water, but you can not make them drink.
I get frustrated watching people I love making horrible decisions. But all I can do is say a prayer that they learn, or that they make it out alive, and let them know I love them NO MATTER WHAT!